http: attach error handler to socket synchronously in onSocket

[RajeshKumar11]

Summary

Fixes the underlying issue identified in #61658 (already merged) where socket errors could be unhandled even when a user had set up a request error handler.

Root Cause

Between onSocket and onSocketNT, the socket had no error handler. If an error was emitted during this window (e.g. from a blocklist check or custom lookup function), it would be unhandled even if the user had req.on('error', ...) set up.

This happened because:

1. createConnection returns the socket synchronously
2. Socket errors are deferred via process.nextTick (in internal/streams/destroy)
3. onSocketNT is also deferred via process.nextTick (to set up socketErrorListener)
4. The error's nextTick fires before onSocketNT's nextTick, so no handler is registered

Fix

Attach socketErrorListener synchronously in onSocket, before the process.nextTick(onSocketNT, ...) call. This requires:

• Setting socket._httpMessage = this early (needed by socketErrorListener to find the request)
• Removing and re-adding the listener in tickOnSocket to avoid duplicates
• Guarding _destroy in onSocketNT against double-firing if socketErrorListener already emitted the error
• Using (req.socket || socket)._hadError since req.socket may not be assigned yet at early error time

Testing

• Added regression test: test/parallel/test-http-request-lookup-error-catchable.js (from net: defer synchronous destroy calls in internalConnect #61658)
• All existing test/parallel/test-http-*.js tests pass

Refs: #48771
Refs: #61658

[nodejs-github-bot]

Review requested:

• @nodejs/http
• @nodejs/net

[ronag]

Can you revert the other change as part of this PR?

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 96.00000% with 1 line in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 89.73%. Comparing base (04946a7) to head (341f0f3).
⚠️ Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
lib/net.js	80.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

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[RajeshKumar11]

Done! Rebased onto upstream/main and added a revert of the net.js changes from #61658 (commit d8c00ad). The test from #61658 is retained since the underlying issue is now properly fixed in _http_client.js.